Your aching joints predict rain better than the weatherman,
yet are relieved by a desert vacation. Ignoring the correlation,
you retire to tropical Florida, cursing the frequent pain. Unable
to eat because you suspect that your lover is unfaithful, your
body takes the brunt of the emotions. You suffer nervous
exhaustion from chasing money and power, the fear of poverty
and powerlessness in hot pursuit. Although weary from
the third shag in one night, you consider another burst of
excitement to ward off the drudgery of unsatisfied living. A
childhood bereft of love and security still haunts; the mind and
body hold onto emotions never fully experienced and released.
Your immunity is weakened by any number of similar factors,
inviting pathogens or parasites to latch on, your body unable
to fend them off. Poisoned not by an unlikely dose of anthrax
but by daily doses of toxic beauty products and off-gassing
paint in your bedroom, you endure more needless suffering.
Ignoring your doctor’s advice about regular rest, exercise and
a balanced diet, you find yourself diagnosed with adult-onset
diabetes. Bad luck, bad doctor or bad intuition, you wake up
missing a kidney—the wrong one. Unable to get out of bed
because your back hurts again, you neglected to stretch and do
your prescribed exercises.
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    Why do we do such unkind things to ourselves? The process
looks a lot like this: Rick (that’s me) is writing a book. He is
constantly thinking about it, about the process of writing it,
about finding an agent and getting it published. When he isn’t
actually working on it, he is thinking or worrying (fearing
failure) about the future, or reliving unpleasant events that
he can easily call up from the past. He is not listening to his
body. He is not, as they say, in the present moment. He is
not relaxed. An overly active mind saps his energy. Although 
 
 
The Essence: Reality is in the Mind of the Beholder
I must admit to feeling a little foolish agonizing over how
to discuss energy and the mind-body connection. I have
been skeptical myself at times, but it is no great mystery. It
really isn’t. The choices we make, the thoughts we harbor day
in and day out, affect us profoundly. They create our lives.
Just for a minute do a little experiment. First, assess how
you feel, your body and your spirits, take your pulse and close
your eyes. Now imagine that you have just won the lottery,
you’ve told your boss how you really feel and you are off to
fulfill your dreams, whatever they may be. Feel any different? of
course you do. does pure thought (energy) generate emotion?
does emotion affect your body? Now try another experiment.
Sit down and eat more than any human should, till you are
bursting and can’t stand another bite, till your stomach aches.
Follow that act of gluttony by sitting down to write an essay
on something simple, like particle physics or gene splicing. Is
the state of your body affecting your mind at all? I’m glad
that’s settled.
    Writing about the mind’s role in health is nonetheless a
delicate task. Beginning with the premise that it is the main
source of illness places a great responsibility on the individual,
one that I share with delight and frustration. Knowing
that I’m more than a rag doll caught in the jaws of fate is
simultaneously liberating and burdensome. Yet I can’t lay all
the blame on the mind. It’s a two-way relationship. The body
too comes with its own baggage, such as a tendency to crave
comfort food, to hold on to trauma, to be built for activity
in a technological age. Maybe you weren’t the strongest one
of the litter. our histories are full of physical and emotional
stresses and obstacles, stored seemingly out of reach but
annoyingly within sight. The body wants to be free of these
discomforts, but it needs assistance from the mind, or at least
its non-interference.